We have made several changes to our party schedule. Please be sure to view our updates on the Private Events page for complete details.
Memberships can be obtained ONLY at Insight Events, or occasionally by special appointment.
Lair de Sade
North Hollywood, CA 91606
For specific address information, please contact
The Insight schedule is as follows:
- 2:00pm - Gates open for shopping and socializing
- 2:30pm - BDSM Open Forum begins. (1 hour. Four-part repeating series, open discussion.)
- 3:30pm - Featured Presentation/class begins (2 hours, approximate.)
- 6:00pm - Bellydance class begins (1.5 hours. Additional fee, dancers only, no watchers.)
- 6:00pm - Gates close to non-bellydance participants.
Admission is $10 per person (no charge for Platinum Members)
Whether your sellin', shoppin' or simply socializin'!
All Vendors Welcome
There is no extra fee to sell... so come set up a table and have your own lil' "yard sale!"
Complimentary Coffee, Coke, Diet Coke & Bottled Water are provided, and B.Y.O.B. okay too! (C.C. Inc does not provide food at INSIGHTs.)
Adults (21+) Only ~*~ ID Required at the gate
INSIGHT afternoons are the only events The Lair is open to non-members.
NEW to the Lair?
Arrive early and get a complete tour of the premises between 2- 2:30pm!
June 8, 2013
From 3:30pm to 5:30pm
Lair de Sade
Hurts so good! Exploring pain processing
Presented by Sinderellie
Pain. It is a significant part of what many of us do in this lifestyle. It is what some of us crave, need, and enjoy. But why? When? How? Where? Under what circumstances?
Processing pain is a very personal and individual thing and everyone does it differently. However, that does not mean that there aren't some common factors and things to learn that may help one's individual process. This insight will deal with ways to process pain, different levels of pain enjoyment, and the important role mood and headspace play in how you process pain. There will also be a discussion on practical applications, like different sensations, implements, the body's natural reactions, and most importantly, how to use breathing, visualization and focus to achieve a higher level of processing.
This insight is for those who enjoy pain at any level and in any capacity. It can also be useful knowledge for those who like to inflict pain. This is the knowledge that I've gathered from my experience and throughout my 7 years of interacting with others in the lifestyle. Please bring your questions as there will be time for Q&A at the end for discussion.
Sinderellie has been in the lifestyle for 7 years and has been active in the local public community for 3 of those years. She has both a bachelor?s degree and a master?s degree in psychology as well as an undergraduate minor in human sexuality. She has been working in the mental health field for the past 3 years.
She has, still is, and will continue to learn and grow throughout her own journey into submission and service. She believes in education, personal growth and enrichment of the self and of the community in all its facets. She believed in promoting and striving for strong healthy M/s relationships that meet everyones needs. She enjoys sharing her experience and knowledge with everyone in the lifestyle, regardless of gender,role, or orientation.