Pain. It is a significant part of what many of us do in this lifestyle. It is what some of us crave, need, and enjoy. But why? When? How? Where? Under what circumstances?

Processing pain is a very personal and individual thing and everyone does it differently. However, that does not mean that there aren't some common factors and things to learn that may help one's individual process. This insight will deal with ways to process pain, different levels of pain enjoyment, and the important role mood and headspace play in how you process pain. There will also be a discussion on practical applications, like different sensations, implements, the body's natural reactions, and most importantly, how to use breathing, visualization and focus to achieve a higher level of processing.

This insight is for those who enjoy pain at any level and in any capacity. It can also be useful knowledge for those who like to inflict pain. This is the knowledge that I've gathered from my experience and throughout my 7 years of interacting with others in the lifestyle. Please bring your questions as there will be time for Q&A at the end for discussion.

Bio:

Sinderellie has been in the lifestyle for 7 years and has been active in the local public community for 3 of those years. She has both a bachelor?s degree and a master?s degree in psychology as well as an undergraduate minor in human sexuality. She has been working in the mental health field for the past 3 years.

She has, still is, and will continue to learn and grow throughout her own journey into submission and service. She believes in education, personal growth and enrichment of the self and of the community in all its facets. She believed in promoting and striving for strong healthy M/s relationships that meet everyones needs. She enjoys sharing her experience and knowledge with everyone in the lifestyle, regardless of gender,role, or orientation.

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